27 October 2009

"don't know if I can make it through another winter in this town"

Pants said, "you still love this guy.
"I mean you're still in love with him."
And I get confused and say, "I don't stop loving anyone." I pause, unsure how to continue. "I mean, he isn't who he used to be."
Pants starts to say something. "You're in love with the idea-"
"No. I don't know who he is now."

I love who he was, at some point.
A year ago today I was at his parents' house with him, powerless. Looking up flight times and prices so he and I could go to Eugene OR and find out what happened to his dead brother. Put things in order. You know, like trying to put back together a glass you just shattered.
Yeah. I miss him. Yeah, I still love him. I probably am still in love with him. I never know how to properly articulate the kind of pain I've discovered because of this situation. Suck the yolk from an egg and what's left is my chest.

The nights are the hardest.
I don't want to go home.
I can't bear to be alone.

And yet I remain.

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